The dicision to be remarkable, well...is just that. A dicision. You have to decide that you want to be different. Most remarkable people are people of action, and for a good reason: if you don’t take decisive action, nothing will ever change.
But this first step is entirely mental. It calls for a clear decision to rise above the culture of mediocrity. And then, of course, it calls for action.
How Do You Decide To Be Remarkable?
1. Stop making excuses. Just stop. Nobody wants to hear you go on about why you couldn't do it.
2. Take responsibility. Just the opposite of making excuses... and of course your thinking YAY. Take responsibility of your success, and when things go wrong -which they are sometimes bound to do- take responsibility of the failure too.
3. Start questioning rules and expectations. Always ask questions and pay close attention to the answers you hear back. Some good starting questions are: Why is this rule in place? Who benefits from this rule being followed? What are the consequences if I don’t follow this rule or meet this expectation? What is the worst thing that could happen if I don’t follow this rule?
4. Find work that you love and do it well. Depending on who you are, this requires up to two big changes in your life: first, you have to find work that you love, and second, you have to do it well. Do it better than expected and people will be amazed.
5. Begin living your own life. This is what it’s all about—the life you were meant to live. If you don’t know what that is yet, start looking for it. Why would you want to live someone else’s life?
6. Take it up a level. Take what’s already working well and exponentially add to it. Grow your business 300%. Apply for the position of CFO when you’re the Accounts Payable Clerk. Visit five countries instead of one on your next trip (or if you want to explore one place well, stay three weeks instead of one).
"No one ever choked to death swallowing his pride"

.... and take care of your horsemanship and it will take care of you!
ReplyDeleteLove all your thoughtful posting!
Petra Christensen
Parelli Central
Parelli 2Star Junior Instructor